tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post4307013531170938331..comments2024-01-16T04:38:10.648-08:00Comments on Coolred's Rant: A Force of NatureCoolred38http://www.blogger.com/profile/07502256532402473484noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-28248171668465376342010-01-01T23:36:54.303-08:002010-01-01T23:36:54.303-08:00What a lovely friend Maryam is! I'm so happy t...What a lovely friend Maryam is! I'm so happy that she is your friend and you are hers. You are a very good soul, Coolred. I'm blessed to know you. You have pulled through a lot and have come out as my personal heroine.<br /><br />God bless you and your children and your friend, Maryam.<br /><br />Happy New Year!Acheloisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-59614600909922596062009-12-29T13:44:24.374-08:002009-12-29T13:44:24.374-08:00Maryaaam do you want to be my friend ? :)Maryaaam do you want to be my friend ? :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-55846167413071328922009-12-29T00:17:31.276-08:002009-12-29T00:17:31.276-08:00SkippyMom...now I know your not reading my posts t...SkippyMom...now I know your not reading my posts to closely....for you would understand that I NEVER passively accept her behavior...which is why we argue so much. But our relationship is never boring...and she is a lot of fun and perfect the way she is.Coolred38https://www.blogger.com/profile/07502256532402473484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-20596865277111186482009-12-28T17:16:47.745-08:002009-12-28T17:16:47.745-08:00People that are constantly late and make people wa...People that are constantly late and make people wait are selfish. Plain and simple - the feel their time is more important/valuable than anyone else's and you don't matter.<br /><br />I am happy she balances you out, but passively accepting her behavior is only going to escalate her abuse of you.<br /><br />Sad, because she sounds like fun otherwise.SkippyMomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09479661523059481730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-71324754013412783182009-12-14T08:43:19.142-08:002009-12-14T08:43:19.142-08:00Maryam...I think you see in me what you want to se...Maryam...I think you see in me what you want to see..lol....but the end result is the same. Love ya.Coolred38https://www.blogger.com/profile/07502256532402473484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-63438775142040074432009-12-10T14:33:50.920-08:002009-12-10T14:33:50.920-08:00Bravo Maryam!Bravo Maryam!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-4367189569803427392009-12-10T10:37:15.126-08:002009-12-10T10:37:15.126-08:00Awwww...
I'm going to cry! what a lovely exch...Awwww...<br /><br />I'm going to cry! what a lovely exchange the two of you had...it is wonderful that you found each other! Maryam sounds like a total sweetheart!obynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-87895685512341615582009-12-10T08:37:10.295-08:002009-12-10T08:37:10.295-08:00my STORM Leeann, You know how much i love you and ...my STORM Leeann, You know how much i love you and the kids, no distance can stop this love, you hurt me when you gone again, but my love bigger than my hurt and i always keep this hope in my mind, that one day you gona come back to Bahrain, i miss your existance and the kids as well, and i know you miss me too, dont comment on what i said and sorry for my weak english,, but you put in your mind that since the day i saw you, isaw what others didnt see in you,<br />i saw smart, i saw beautiful heart and i saw the most wonderful person got in my life,may God bless you ever where. I love you foo Leeann Fleet wood..<br />Maryam Al.SherooqiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-75436353288143838432009-12-09T18:07:04.467-08:002009-12-09T18:07:04.467-08:00I really like the expression,Force of Nature! I...I really like the expression,Force of Nature! I'm very happy that you've got a special friend like her! May the bond between the two of you stay intact and grow more,if there's any space left now :)into the next lifetime,inshallah!<br />LatAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-18103719947697963672009-12-09T08:02:12.016-08:002009-12-09T08:02:12.016-08:00Maha...thank you for stopping by. i agree with you...Maha...thank you for stopping by. i agree with you about true friends and when they arrive...I believe if she and I had met earlier in our lives we might not have been the friends we are because alot that was going on in both of our lives WHEN we met...helped strengthen our relationship. <br /><br />Glad you have a friend like mine...I know u feel blessed as I do.Coolred38https://www.blogger.com/profile/07502256532402473484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-73646892040605560232009-12-08T22:21:29.229-08:002009-12-08T22:21:29.229-08:00This is my first landing here, and I really like y...This is my first landing here, and I really like your blog and your simple yet touching way of writing.<br /><br />Your story reminds a bit of myself..I had many chidlhood friends and school friends, but none of them was like my friend, Majduleen. I met a few years ago on the internet...she thought I was a man undercover :) <br />When you were describing your relation with your friend Matyam, I felt you were describing me and Majduleen...<br />From my experience, I beleive that true friendship never happens in an early stage of our lives, and the later it occurs, the better and the deeper it turns to be...<br /><br />Thanks for sharing thisMaha Noor Elahihttp://saudirevelations.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-92211005888796468692009-12-06T12:07:18.573-08:002009-12-06T12:07:18.573-08:00tuttie: my mother never abused me but my father m...tuttie: my mother never abused me but my father made it a part of his daily ritual...so been there done that. Yes...it is so hard to overcome. The trust issue alone is a mountain without a peak in sight for most of us.<br /><br />aynur: and here I thought I was the only cold and aloof lady out there...sounds a club is needed for us wayward souls...lol.<br /><br />angel: very true...but she picked me lol...not sure why.<br /><br />susie: she is more than enough for me...thanks<br /><br />stacy: I understand completely...after hating my own dad and his ways...I went out and married a guy that was almost exactly like him. Whats up with that?<br /><br />alabaster: I wish we didnt fight as I dont like fighting...but Ive come to accept that its part of our personalities to clash...and so far it hasnt gone beyond anything that cant be fixed...lets hope it stays that way. As long as theres no real heat in the argument...its just so much steam.<br /><br />susanne: delightful? hmmm? not a word I would associate with her LOL but she is that...and so much more. <br /><br />betty: I only wish I gave back as much I got...its truly an unequal relationship. <br /><br />Keep Warm? this is Wyoming you know...LOL.Coolred38https://www.blogger.com/profile/07502256532402473484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-38451846953841156002009-12-06T10:27:57.392-08:002009-12-06T10:27:57.392-08:00Hey Red,
I trust you are NOT going to be investin...Hey Red,<br /><br />I trust you are NOT going to be investing in, what was it? Aimtrust?<br /><br />Anyway, great tribute to a dear friend. I'm glad you have some one who gives you that kind of support.<br /><br />Keep warm. <br /><br />BettyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-133983159306394832009-12-06T08:39:33.233-08:002009-12-06T08:39:33.233-08:00What a super-sweet tribute to your friend. She so...What a super-sweet tribute to your friend. She sounds delightful! :)Susannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03115294023069458287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-72850567783314900432009-12-05T18:58:46.739-08:002009-12-05T18:58:46.739-08:00I am soooo crying right now girl! :) Really. How b...I am soooo crying right now girl! :) Really. How blessed you are. I think you know that! <br />I remember Bahrain and how isolated I was. Its not like my Pakistani husband didn't suggest I "make some friends" but it is not that easy. She is in your corner and that is fabulous! We all need female connections-sisterhood of sorts. <br />anthrogeek10Anthrogeek10https://www.blogger.com/profile/11406037720184185596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-40554425712297983182009-12-05T12:17:59.191-08:002009-12-05T12:17:59.191-08:00Who can explain love? Having someone in our lives ...Who can explain love? Having someone in our lives that elevates us and make us feel special and loved is truly a gift. It is that little whisper to our soul that says, yes, we are valuable and special and wothy in every way even when others around us especially those whom we cannot chose in our lives such as parents, seem to treat us otherwise. Having a solid,loving,supportive friend is one of the great gifts there is. Even when we are being difficult or when our attitudes are not the best it is our friends that stand by and love us through it or help us get an attitude adjustment...sometimes forcefully LOL! The fact that we have nothing in common is secondary...what we do have in common is our love for each other and our commitment to our friendship...<br /><br />The fact that we can fight and forgive over and over is a testiment to the bond that we share with friends. We forgive because despite our differences they touch us on a deep level. And BEST of all true friends, unlike family, are people we choose to have in our lives and they stay beside us because they WANT to not because they have to.<br /><br />Congrats to you and Maryam...I wish that kind of friendship at least once for everyone...you may miss each other because you aren't close by anymore but you will always be connected by heart!obynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-26210253422811486272009-12-05T09:11:22.430-08:002009-12-05T09:11:22.430-08:00My dad is a Jehovah's Witness so growing up it...My dad is a Jehovah's Witness so growing up it was the same as you- go to school and come back home. No friends were allowed, and i hardly saw family. I have a friend JUST like yours, only we hardly fight lol. <br />Inshallah your friend will be able to come back to visit you again soon! Those visits are so precious!AlabasterMuslimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16391496200607792492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-89532900431388286772009-12-05T09:05:25.538-08:002009-12-05T09:05:25.538-08:00A Force of Nature post! Wonderfully expressed. I n...A Force of Nature post! Wonderfully expressed. I notice HRW has taken notice of her situation, and I hope she gets through it well!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-55998148683027073732009-12-05T08:48:54.421-08:002009-12-05T08:48:54.421-08:00My dad is also not a very social person, so we did...My dad is also not a very social person, so we didn't often have people over to the house. I don't know how my mom has stood it all these years. Well, then a ended up marrying a guy who is somewhat the same too, and so I've been trying to slowly show him the importance of having at least a few good friends.Stacy K. https://www.blogger.com/profile/06853574441003653244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-21184038846396442662009-12-05T07:22:32.114-08:002009-12-05T07:22:32.114-08:00Friendship is so important to our lives. I'm ...Friendship is so important to our lives. I'm happy that you have this one special friend in yours.Susie of Arabiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13315336613944665651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-48644878732740674682009-12-05T01:46:20.979-08:002009-12-05T01:46:20.979-08:00I am so glad you have a friend like that. I have ...I am so glad you have a friend like that. I have to say I've been blessed with many friends like that, and there is nothing in the world like it. Friends are the family you get to pick! :0)Angel Darlinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07448714419764794219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-11721656100256995252009-12-04T23:41:46.835-08:002009-12-04T23:41:46.835-08:00I'm so glad you have a friend like that!!! :)...I'm so glad you have a friend like that!!! :)<br /><br />Funny, school - home and back again was the story of my life. My dad didn't build a tall fence or live outside the city, he just didn't have anyone over and was extremely controlling. ;) I also am not very sociable, I think I appear very cold and aloof ... but once I know someone I am fine.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3729473620051154675.post-6721500582031436592009-12-04T23:29:32.343-08:002009-12-04T23:29:32.343-08:00my childhood was similar to you about the no frien...my childhood was similar to you about the no friends and my mother abused me till she broke bones, noses and whatever she could. sigh. I have great friends now but it has taken me some time to get over my social anxieties..::Tuttie::.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16998039088396426418noreply@blogger.com